CHAPTER XIV.

_The first private Balls at Delmonico’s--A Nightingale who drove

Four-in-hand--Private Theatricals in a Stable--A Yachting Excursion

without wind and a Clam-bake under difficulties--A Poet describes

the Fiasco--Plates for foot-stools and parboiled Champagne for the

thirsty--The Silver, Gold, and Diamond Dinners--Giving presents to

guests._

Let us now return to New York and its gaieties. The Assemblies were

always given at Delmonico’s in Fourteenth Street, the best people in the

city chosen as a committee of management, and under the patronage of

ladies of established position. They were large balls, and embraced all

who were in what may be termed General Society. They were very

enjoyable. A distinguished banker, the head of one of our old families,

then gave the first _private_ ball at Delmonico’s to introduce his

daughters to society. It was superb. The Delmonico rooms were admirably

adapted for such an entertainment. There were at least eight hundred

people present, and the host brought from his well-filled cellar his

best Madeira and Hock. His was the pioneer private ball at this house.

Being a success, it then became the fashion to give private balls at

Delmonico’s, and certainly one could not have found better rooms for

such a purpose. One of the grandest and handsomest fancy balls ever

given here was given in these rooms a little later. Absent at the South,

I did not attend it. Then came in an era of great extravagance and

expenditure.

A beautiful woman, who was a nightingale in song, gave a fancy ball. It

was brilliantly successful, and brought its leader to the front, and

gave her a large following. It made her, with the personal attractions

she possessed, the belle of that winter. Among other accomplishments,

she drove four horses beautifully. I remember during the summer passing

her on Bellevue Avenue as she sat perched up on the box-seat of a drag,

driving four fine horses, handling the ribbons with a grace and ease

that was admirable. All paid court to her. She won the hearts of both

men and women.

At this time a man of great energy and pluck loomed up, and attracted,

in fact absorbed to a great extent, the attention of society. Full of

energy and enterprise, and supplied with abundant means, he did a great

deal for New York, much that will live after him. He created Jerome

Park; and not only created it, but got society into it. He made it the

Goodwood of America, and caused society to take an interest in it. He

opened that park most brilliantly, and, by his energy and perseverance,

rendered it for years a most enjoyable place for all New Yorkers.

Admiring the beautiful cantatrice, he proposed to her to turn his

luxurious stables into a theatre, and ask the fashionable world to come

and see her act “for sweet charity’s sake,”--to raise funds for the sick

and wounded soldiers. In doing this, he assured her that she would

literally bring the fashionable world to her feet to petition and sue

for tickets of admission to this theatre. And so it proved. All flocked

to see this accomplished woman act. The work of this energetic man was

admirably done. He made a gem of his stable. I can but compare it to a

little royal theatre. As you entered you were received by liveried

servants, and by them conducted to your seat, where you found yourself

surrounded by a most brilliant assemblage; and on the stage, as amateur

actresses, supporting the fair singer, the fashionable beauties of that

day. This was not the least of this generous man’s performances. Being

an admirable four-in-hand driver, he at once revived the spirit for

driving four horses. He turned out daily with his drag or coach loaded

with beautiful women, and drove to every desirable little country inn in

and about the city, where one could dine at all well, crossing ferries,

and driving up Broadway with the ease and skill of a veteran whip, which

he was. His projects were, if anything, too grand. He lavished money on

all these things; his conceptions were good, but, like many great minds,

at times he was too unmindful of detail. On one occasion, at Newport, he

came to me, and told me he had mapped out a country _fête_, asked my

advice about getting it up, but failed to take it, and then brought

about his first _fiasco_. He asked the _beau monde_ to embark on the

yachts then lying in the harbor, and go with him to Stone Bridge to a

dance and clambake. All the yachtsmen placed their yachts at his

disposal. At 12 M., all Newport, i.e. the fashion of the place, was on

these yachts. At the prow of the boats he had placed his champagne. Down

came the broiling sun, and a dead calm fell upon the waters. Tugs were

called in to tow the yachts. Orders had been given that not a biscuit or

glass of wine was to be served to any of the party on these boats, that

we might reach the feast at the Bridge with sharp appetites. The sun

went down, and the night set in before we landed. We were then taken to

an orchard, the high grass a foot deep all wet, and saw before us great

plates of stewed soft clams and corn that had been cooked and ready for

us at 2 P.M. The women put their plates on the grass, and their feet in

them, so at least to have a dry footing. The champagne was parboiled,

the company enveloped in darkness, and famished, so that all pronounced

this kind of clambake picnic a species of _fête_ not to be indulged in

knowingly a second time. The great wit of the day, his boon companion,

called it “The Melancholy Fête.” The following anonymous lines on this

clambake were sent me:

AN ADAPTATION OF A LAMENTATION.

Clams, clams, clams,

Will always be thrown in my teeth.

Clams, clams, clams!

I’ll be crowned with a chowder wreath.

Bread and pickles and corn,

Corn and pickles and bread.

Whenever I sleep huge ghosts appear

With _clam_orous mouths to be fed.

Oh, women, with appetites strong!

Oh, girls, who I thought lived on air!

I did not mean to leave you so long

With nothing to eat, I declare.

Clams, clams, clams!

I have nothing but clams on the brain.

I’m sure all my life, and after my death

I’ll be roasted and roasted again.

Oh, tugs, why could you not pull?

Oh, winds, why would you not blow?

I’m sure I did all that man could do

That my clambake shouldn’t be slow.

Not in the least discouraged by this failure, returning to New York, he

planned three dinners to be given by himself and two of his friends, to

be the three handsomest dinners ever given in this city. Lorenzo

Delmonico exclaimed, “What are the people coming to! Here, three

gentlemen come to me and order three dinners, and each one charges me to

make his dinner the best of the three. I am given an unlimited order,

‘Charge what you will, but make my dinner the best.’” Delmonico then

said to me, “I told my cook to call them the Silver, Gold, and Diamond

dinners, and have novelties at them all.” I attended these three

dinners. Among other dishes, we had canvasback duck, cut up and made

into an _aspic de canvasback_, and again, string beans, with truffles,

cold, as a salad, and truffled ice cream; the last dish, strange to say,

very good. At one dinner, on opening her napkin, each fair lady guest

found a gold bracelet with the monogram of Jerome Park in chased gold in

the centre. Now it must be remembered that this habit of giving ladies

presents at dinners did not originate in this city. Before my day, the

wealthy William Gaston, a bachelor, gave superb dinners in Savannah,

Ga., and there, always placed at each lady’s plate a beautiful Spanish

fan of such value that they are preserved by the grandchildren of those

ladies, and are proudly exhibited to this day.

ON THE BOX SEAT AT NEWPORT.